Overcoming Insecurity
Most Men couldn’t give a hoot about what their women looks like, they don’t even really care, if she has stretch marks across her belly. It never ceases to amaze me how insecure a woman ! is about her body. She can have the best set of breasts on the face of the earth and she will still be concerned if her ankles are fat. This has always pissed me off. I guess because I don’t understand it. I don’t understand how a woman can be so obsessive about her body. Most men won’t even look, but women are obsessed. You need to understand this about your woman and try to help her. It will eat her alive if you tell her that her that her nose makes her look like Porky the Pig. If you love your woman, then you want to have the most stable relationship possible. If it is unstable, chances are you won’t be getting laid. Do you want a stable relationship and love your lady dearly, you need to understand how women can be so insecure about their bodies. She can have the best set of breasts on the face of the earth and she will still be concerned if her ankles are fat. This has always pissed me off. I guess because I don’t understand it. I don’t understand how a woman can be so obsessive about her body. The funny part is, I don’t think most! men care. I don’t think most men care if there is stretch marks on her stomach. Most men won’t even look, but women are obsessed. It will eat her alive if you tell her that her that her nose makes her look like Porky the Pig. Chances are if your ladies insecure you wont be getting laid.
Do you want to make her feel better about her ass. Most women are insecure about their asses this is not a Bedroom Secrets. You would think by how insecure they are by it, that the sun rises and sets on it. I’ve never understood this, but like most things with women I have come to terms with it. There are ways that you can help to make her feel better
Ask your lady to lay down and start by massaging her shoulders and back and then make your way down to her ass. While you are doing it, tell her how nice it is. Tell her how aroused it makes you to touch her ass. Usually during this, I will insert a few fingers into her vagina. If she says anything, tell her that you got too horny touching her ass.
Cellulite can be a bad insecurity for some women, most will have it on their thighs,it looks abit like cottage cheese. If she is uncomfortable about this, tell her how much you like to kiss her thighs before you have oral sex. Tell her that you didnt even notice that she has any. Act stupid and pretend like you never seen it. Don’t act too stupid, or she will know that you are lying.
Alot of women have a spare tire around their stomach, don’t make her fret over it. Tell her to lie down and that you would like to kiss and lick her tummy as this makes you horny when you are kissing her down there. She will eat this up.
Ask your lady why she turns out the lights before she comes to bed for sex. Tell her that you like to look at her beautiful body and to watch her have an orgasm. As this makes you very excited. Try to emphasize that you want to see her beautiful body.
No one is perfect, we wish that our women where like the models that you see in the latest mag, but alas they aren’t perfect either. If you want perfection buy a love machine, but you will find they aren’t perfect either. Underneath it all,there are imperfections everywhere.
Point out to you lady that you have imperfections as well and that nobody is perfect. Ask her if she would like to know all your imperfections, point them out to her, go in detail if you have to.
I’m not saying you should break down and become manic when you tell her this. Use common sense. Don’t go out of your way to cry or act depressed. She will see this coming a mile away. Instead, be honest and open about it. Tell her that one leg is bigger than the other or whatever your problem is.
Nice boobs, Bad ass,it doesn’t matter you need to listen to her to find out what faults she thinks she has.It is important that you understand how your woman views herself. Tell her what you feel are her strong points. Does she have nice breasts? Does she have nice legs? Tell her about it!
Do you want earth shattering orgasms that send you to orbit and back?The best sex occurs when two people feel comfortable with themselves. If she feels comfortable around you, she will be more active in bed. That is your incentive to help her become comfortable with herself.
Being comfortable around your partner naked is what we are after, she cant perform if she feels uncomfortable. I think of the issue about making your lover comfortable like this. If you were a painter, would you be able to paint a picture if you were very nervous? Would you be able to paint a straight line if there was a bomb going off next to you? No, you wouldn’t be able to.
If she doesn’t feel comfortable after all that you have told her and done with her. I would suggest that you try breathing excesses. You can easily find directions for these on the net. These are a great way to relax and relieve stress as well. Both of you should do this together.
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